Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Am I insane? Am I a saint or the world's biggest fool? Is there any possible way I can forgive my H for his latest confession of 3 affairs in the last 10 years, the most recent only ended a month ago and was still going on when he confessed. He's had 8 women in 22 years of marriage. Why am I still here? He's trying this time, but I've heard it all before: "I love you", "I will never do it again", etc.... We are in counseling, he's working on the dialogue techniques we learned in marriage encounter and we are doing the homework every night. I just can't stop thinking about it and I can't stop imagining him with the latest one. Am I a fool for trying to forgive and work this out AGAIN? I have to give him credit that he IS trying, but I have so little hope and I think that's hurting our chances. My heart loves him and wants to forgive but my brain is saying he's going to do it again, it's just a matter of time. I'm angry all the time. I can't even pray. I'm not sure I even believe there is a God anymore. All I can do when I try to pray is lash out and be angry with God because this pain is unbearable and He isn't sending me any peace with the decisions we've made so far. I don't get any peace when I think about ANY of our options, leaving, reconciliation, counseling, etc.... Nothing puts my heart at ease. Why isn't God listening? Or is it me that's not listening? I need help. I really am losing it.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
it must come from within.
the first step to gaining peace is to put yourself first.
what do you want?
what do you deserve?
do you really believe you want this pain?
do you really think you deserve this level of disrespect?
if you think you only deserve this relationship then you should be happy - you have what you want.
my guess is that you don't feel that way - you don't believe you deserve this - you believe you deserve more.
so reach for more.
the odds are in favor of one of two things happening - your husband strays again, admits it, and devastates you, or he behaves, you go crazy worrying about him straying, he strays and blames you for driving him to it, and you're devastated.
please - think about yourself first. think about your happiness.
think about the things you deserve.
and then reach for them.
god listens - but he requuires us to act.
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