Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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10 weeks after the affair- we are still having calls ad texts from the OW. Last night she phoned my home to tell My H that she would be in a resort where his website says he will be at the weekend and would love to see him. I just went beserk- He gave me the phone as i could see he was upset and the conversation was as follows- I said you are a thick sperm swallowing bitch who has no morals, you are a crap mother who pushes your children anywhere to get a screw and you have never had the decency to stop calling or ever once apologise- The answer was, " Whatever", very Jerry Springer. My H took the phone and he said I feel sick to my stomach that i put all my life at risk for a bitch like you and then told her to F... Off. I have avoided calls and texts but I should have done it a long time ago. It makes me sick to the pit of my stomach that he chose a slut like her to put us at risk like this- what an idiot im with eh!.By the way his gigs was cancelled weeks ago by my request so he wouldt have been there anyway.Do you think i should have maintained my dignity or what?. All i can say is that if i didnt rely on my good character for my police checked job I think i would have punched her weeks ago.STILL NO APOLOGY THOUGH FROM HER
deleted_user
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id be contacting the police if she keeps it up. it is stalking by the sounds of it. at least your hubby did the right thing, you gotta be greatful for that. hope it works out. take care.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You did good! Doesnt it just feel great though..."whateevar!", she is such a nothing. sometimes that makes it worse, "You risked losing me for THAT!"
do u feel better? He did tell her off! God, these men, sometimes I just dont know if they are worth it?

I got the book, I really like it. I am not going to push it because my h is no longer in the mood for pushing..."whateevar"!
deleted_user
deleted_user
That sounds like so much fun. Telling the OW off. Do you feel better
deleted_user
deleted_user
The day after I found out about the affair the ow (my supposed best friend) called me I think she wanted to make sure I knew all the freaky details of there affair but instead of letting her talk anything I let her have every little bit of anger I had in me at that point I told her what exactly I thought of her trashy self she did not like it because she kept saying it takes two it takes two and I told her I am not stupid I know it takes two, but you two were suppose to be the two people I was suppose to be able to trust and you took that trust and wiped your asses with it so f off and I hung up the phone, we will never get apologizes from these people because they have no remorse for what they did because they do this kind of thing all the time if not with our husbands it will be with someone else's hope karma catches up with them soon and they are just as miserable if not more than they have made us.
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