everytime i cry or get upset, my husband ask me is this going to be a "life sentence" for him. he says it in a nice way and is not trying to punish me by asking, but i am just wondering if you have been asked this before,and how you feel. i am not trying to punish him, i can not help the way i feel. i tell him that if i did not love him and did not care what he does than this would not hurt so bad. when i am upset i go upstairs, i don't beg him for attention, i don't scream or yell at him, i just cry silently to myself and he wonders am i punishing him and will this go on forever. he just does not get how i feel about him and how much i hurt, but by no means am i trying to punish him. is he being selfish, only concerned with me getting over it, or should i just suck it up and ignore my feelings to comfort him.
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