Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Lately, I feel like I am being left out of the "family activities." Even though my step-daughter is only here 3.5 days a weeks and I work at night; it seems like whe she is here now I am left out of the things her and my H do. Or that the things that I have NEVER been interested in (watching them play video games) is being done hours a day?
My H copps an attitude about it while it doesnt seem to phase my step-daughter (that they'll be up stairs and im down-stairs.) I feel left out; great huh. any ideas on how to deal with this?...
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How old is your step-daughter? How are you & your husband getting along? It almost sounds like "they" are punishing you.It sounds like he has a partner with his daughter that is going to side with him NO MATTER WHAT. Have you thought about going and includinging youself when they play video games.(even if you HATE video games) Better yet act like it doesn't bother you (I know, easier said then done) but sometimes people do things to get at other peoples goat, if it isn't sticking a torn in your side, maybe they wont do it. Good luck.
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She just turned six. Why in the world would i be punished???? he is the one who cheated! These irritating things have just started too. When we arent getting along its usually when she isnt here. I am also good at keeping me mouth closed when she is around b/c she doesnt need to know the situation.
I think things are going better then shit like this happens. The fact that he ould even comment on "thanks for the family time" irritates me till no end. Starting to wonder if it would be that big of an issue if i left....
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Oh cameron, please don't misunderstand me maybe punished isn't the word. It does sound like to me he is playing games with you...Even if he cheated on you. Sometimes they like to have a control thing going for them. Maybe to steer the cheating part away from him and to treat you a certain way. Why does anyone do anything hurtful to the ones that they love? Good Luck
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