There have been many post to the OW/OM to answer questions. I just wanted to share a moment I just had with my Husband. Back ground first, he has apologized, ended things with OW, and is working to win trust back, BUT is not the type to say he is sorry more than once. Well tonight I was in the kitchen making dinner and thought about adding another ingredient to dinner, then changed my mind. One minute later my H came in and suggested to do the same. In our marriage we have had many moments like this, I'll be thinking Chinese, and 2 minutes later H calls and says I'm bringing home Chinese. We will wake in the morning with out any discussion wanting to do the same activities. We have always loved that part. Tonight after that happened I said "you know we had a good thing going" He replied, "I know we did and there isn't a moment that goes by that I don't think about how I screwed things up." That was the first time I have really heard that and that he missed us. So there is evidence that some cheaters do realize what they have done. I just had to share and maybe giving hope to others.
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