If I knew anything it was that my husband was faithful! Wrong! After 42 yrs of marriage my husband betrayed me with sexual encounters that left me having to check yearly for STD's. The affair went on for 1 yr before he was caught. Endless text messages and phone calls, travel to meet her in another state, etc.
I was heart broken cried for months moved downstairs and decided I had to stay in the marriage for financial reasons. When I have tried to talk to my husband over the last two years he always says, "it was nothing get over it". How do I get over it? If I knew anything it was my husband would never cheat on me. I'm an emotional wreck have been in counseling for two years still grieving.
This whole situation is entirely a mess i brought upon myself. I would sit here for days if I wrote everything down so ill try to keep it simple and to the pointEx and I broke up in 2015, but for the past 3 years have been in a limbo of what we were, always on and off, but mostly off. I ended that cycle early this year, when I started to realize that the roller-coaster we had wasn't worth it...
...break up with my husband of 25 years. But, I've been with him since I was 18 and I'm too scared. It's a really bad situation for me and I know it. But, I can't leave - I just can't. Any advice?