
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
It is a posting under the Lurioosi screen name and it is Jay. it is on pg 14 of the discussion and it is reply #140....get back with me and let me know what is up with that. I also saw his "wifes????" last journal entry...wth???????
This is from that post in the bipolar forum under atheism:
Okay...please let me go away and stop talking to me. My wife is going to have a manic episode on my head if I keep posting under her name.
I killed JayLGee2 because this board is taking up too much of my time. I have deadlines. I have research. I must research...must research. You people are fun, but no...there is no dissertation fairy or bunny. And, if there were, I doubt that they would know anything about vocal damage in public school teachers. Reply #140
10/26/2007
now tell me that isn't beyond weird?
both quotes are from a thread about "can cheaters change?"
both are from Jay about his wife and were posted on 10/20 and 10/23. (sorry i didn't index my data as impressively as some of you.)
"My wife would never have imagined that she could have done this. She is crushed by what she did. I've seen her take two or three baths a day scrubbing herself to try to feel like she's clean."
"...my wife has suffered greatly for what she did. I hate to see her in the bathroom trying to scrub her affair away until her skin is almost raw. There are other cheaters on here who have reported the same thing. You'd have to be pretty masochistic to do that over again."
it always struck me as a little lady macbeth - the idea of scrubbing away the affair. and very guilt-ridden.
don't know why but i always had the feeling that back at the ranch Jay was supplying lurioosi's guilt.
i hadn't thought of them as two people before tonight, but if you reread some of their posts, there is a roteness to their answers, his always pressing home the points about cheaters, choices, and pain, and her's echoing with her expression of pain and regret.
speaking in Jay, parroting his thoughts and beliefs, almost to punish herself.
won't we all have a good laugh when it turns out to be nothing much?