Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
That is what i get from my caring, loving H. "I never called her, she only called me."
Oh, ok, so that makes it right? That is supposed to make me feel better? Then I get "you dont talk to guys at work?" I am a bartender, of course I talk to guys at work, that is what pays HIS bills. Do they call my cell phone, do I meet them after work....NO. Do I have the opportuntiy to cheat..oh yes I do, but I have morals and respect for myself,my husband, and other married women. I would never!
How dare he tell me to get over this....nothing happened, Yeah right!
I asked, If I give my phone # to guys and they only call me,I never call them, is it ok, and he says no. So what's up?
I have been up all night and confronted him before he went to work. He said he will talk to me when he gets home, we'll see. He has not talked to me about it yet. Just put it off as if nothing has happened. I am going to make him deal with this this time, one way or another. I am going to tell him to leave because I can not trust him ever or I am going to... say......what?
How can he make me believe him? He asks, What do you want me to do? I have no answer for him. That is what makes me believe that there is no hope here. No matter what he does, it will never be good enough. He tells me over and over again he loves me, he really does try.
I don't believe him, I am wicked sad because I love him, I want to believe him. I just can't.
OMG the sun is up! My poor kids, I am only home a few days a week, and now I seem to be sleeping through those days.
I work 5 nights a week and on my days off, my H is in bed by 10 because he has to get up by 5 to go to work. Our relationship sucks.
He hates me because I am up all night, and i hate him because he goes to be so early.
I don't think there is any hope here. I have tried. I just can't get over this.
Let;s see if he says anything about it when he get home.
Oh, ok, so that makes it right? That is supposed to make me feel better? Then I get "you dont talk to guys at work?" I am a bartender, of course I talk to guys at work, that is what pays HIS bills. Do they call my cell phone, do I meet them after work....NO. Do I have the opportuntiy to cheat..oh yes I do, but I have morals and respect for myself,my husband, and other married women. I would never!
How dare he tell me to get over this....nothing happened, Yeah right!
I asked, If I give my phone # to guys and they only call me,I never call them, is it ok, and he says no. So what's up?
I have been up all night and confronted him before he went to work. He said he will talk to me when he gets home, we'll see. He has not talked to me about it yet. Just put it off as if nothing has happened. I am going to make him deal with this this time, one way or another. I am going to tell him to leave because I can not trust him ever or I am going to... say......what?
How can he make me believe him? He asks, What do you want me to do? I have no answer for him. That is what makes me believe that there is no hope here. No matter what he does, it will never be good enough. He tells me over and over again he loves me, he really does try.
I don't believe him, I am wicked sad because I love him, I want to believe him. I just can't.
OMG the sun is up! My poor kids, I am only home a few days a week, and now I seem to be sleeping through those days.
I work 5 nights a week and on my days off, my H is in bed by 10 because he has to get up by 5 to go to work. Our relationship sucks.
He hates me because I am up all night, and i hate him because he goes to be so early.
I don't think there is any hope here. I have tried. I just can't get over this.
Let;s see if he says anything about it when he get home.
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my H used to say she only called him and for the morst part on his cell bills I can see that is true but here is the thing....they take the calls and they give these women their numbers so they can call....sounds to me like you guys might benefit from counseling or some time apart so you have time to think and feel what YOU want for a change... I wish you the best and Take Care of YOU
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What I don't get is where they get the idea that it is okay to give out their cell phone number and have phone calls/text messages with other women? I don't think they would like it if we did it!
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