
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Found out 2 week ago that my wife had been having an affair with a guy she works with. I suspected something for many months. We talked one night and she told me how she felt about the other guy but knew that he would never leave his family. We had problems prior to this but after our discussion I had the strong feeling that he was stringing her along and that really hurt me. So I called the other guys wife and told what was going on. She told me that every aspect of their marriage was pretty much normal including the sex. But since I called her she threatened her husband that she would leave and take their kids if he had anymore contact with my wife. Now she is pissed at me saying I went behind her back and betrayed her for calling. now their work life is in the shitter and she says that she has lost her best friend. She says that they were best friends over and above anything else. She says that what I did is unforgivable. Was I wrong for what I did and wanting to protect her from someone that I felt was using her?
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There has to be no contact between the two.
When your wife is done with her tantrum...she will realize he didn't care for her. Duh,he's with his wife!! She should find a different job as soon as possible! Your wife has lost her mind..look who - betrayed who....
If you still love her and want your marriage.
Give her time,she'll see the truth!
I wish you well.
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But seldom can people ever look at themselves fully, they will always find some way to blame someone else for their worng doings. But remember this....no one held a gun to her head.
She dug herself a grave that she doesn't want to be buried in. She needs to stop pointing her finger and take a long hard look at how her actions have put her where she is. You would have had nothing to react to if she didn't CHEAT!
Don't believe her. She lost her best friend? WTF is that? She lost her little escape from reality.
He won't talk to her? And now it's your fault? And she doesn't know if she can forgive YOU?
I'm blown away that you even have this forum if you were wrong. Stand up for yourself and your family... If she refuses to see it that way, you're better off without her.
you are the victin not her.his wife had a right to know too..her marriage
was at stake too..if you need to talk iam here message me..hugsssssss
When she decides to get her head out of the clouds. Than and only than will she realize this was a fairy tale,made up in her own foggy thinking!! This man was not a great friend or husband to his wife. It would of never worked and was never meant to be!! She has gotten herself entangled in an emotional web of lies!
Hang onto your hat,because you are in for a nasty roller coaster ride of emotions. This will be your worst nightmare!
I agree with the others. She is shifting all the blame onto you! Just because the truth was told. Now she can't face the reality,he didn't want her!! He wants his family,she was not,that special to him. Her fantasy bubble is broken,the fun & games have stopped. He's back to business & his own family. Reality Check!! Did she really believe this would go on forever??
She should be looking out for your heart and your relationship and YOUR marriage. And she is more concerned with him than her OWN KIDS?
You were looking out for your family and did the right thing. Her reaction to all of this makes me wonder if she is warped in the head.
Counseling may help -- but it may not -- if she keeps her current position. If it doesn't help, keep your girls and kick her ass to the curb.
Funny, my XH did this to me and after we split I predicted to everyone he would end up with his "best friend" and he did. Funny too how he and I were "best friends" before we got together as well. I say beware of the "best friend" line. H and W need to be each other's best friends and nobody else belongs there.
You were betrayed in this, not her at all.