During the summer, my husband lost his job and we had to move in with my parents. Things were really tough. He started acting funny. So I decided to look at his email. There was this email from this guy that he had agreed to have sex with. They had exchanged numbers and were setting up to meet. When I confronted him he said that he never met him, that he never was going to meet him, that he just felt bad about himself and was just talking to the guy. He said that because I was making him unhappy and that is why he did that, but if I tried to keep to tight of a leash on him, I would force him to hook up with someone. Is this cheating? I know he never hooked up with the guy. But does it matter?
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