Heres my question and I need opinions. My husband stopped seeing the OW before I found out the whole truth. Long story short is that most of the summer they were "friends". He half @#$ confessed after he ended it with her and then 2 weeks later she called me and told me everything. She the for the next month called my cell phone and his day and night I guess to drive me insane. She even followed us one night we were out. That was the end of November. There has been no contact and no calls since. I do wish that the one time I saw her I had handled it differently (saying something, everything), instead of walking away. My question is, is it a bad idea to write her a letter to get everything off my chest to her? Or would I be "stirring up the pot". There hasnt been any contact for months on both sides but I still feel as if I should have handled things differently.
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