
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I cheated and was caught. He put his hands on me (violently and for the first time) because I refused to talk about it. He left and took the children (i was not about to fight over them for it had nothing to do with them)and cheated himself as soon as he left. Telling her he loved her and talling lies about me. My affair was meaningless, never spoke the "L" word to this other man, just needed to know someone cared. I live my husband and want to work things out. Two wrongs dont make a right and I am afraid to appear desparate (its just not in me though that is how I feel) I need advice and a little encouragement
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Also, if you want to work this out, I highly suggest some form of counseling. I am really concerned though about him getting physically abusive with you. Was it the first time he did that? How long have you two been together if you don't mind me asking?
This is the start of the process....to humble thy self.
Good luck
NIKI1977: my affair lasted less than 6 months. His was less than three the only difference is he started his after he left our bad sistuation. But we are still married and it still hurt even though I had no right to really be upset. I had done the same.
Thank you COWBOYGR2002: I ask God for forgiveness every night. I consider myself to be fairly religious, just out of practice i guess.
The reason I ask, is because I think people get so caught up in their own feelings, and needs that aren't being met by their spouses that they fail to think ahead far enough to see what damage they will be doing to their spouse and their kids.
Be totally honest and open with him about the affair and encourage him to do the same.
Ok, you both made mistakes. Maybe that will in some way level the playing field for healing to begin.
Don't be surprised if it takes a very long time.
What you have to ask yourself, and sometimes that's the hardest part, is whether you REALLY want to stay married to your husband for the right reasons.
Obviously something was missing for you or you wouldn't have had the affair in the first place.
I hope things turn out the way you want them to.
God bless you.