Ok my situation is pretty complicated, I guess everyone's is... Well my fiance(or ex, I dunno yet) cheated on me. Um, I moved from Arkansas to Kansas to be with him. I was always left alone because he had to work all the time. He didn't have a vehicle, so he seemed to always be stuck on base. So I was friendless, and didn't have any family around me. I was finally able to get a job, so I wouldn't feel so helpless or bored... but he became pretty distant from me... I would go days with out hearing from him. I was never suspicious of infidelity though... I just figured he was stressed. He just told me that he couldn't always talk, and that I should know by now that he loved me, and so therefore didn't have to say it everyday. Starting claiming that the things I was asking for were more like demands... I asked if I could hear from him at least every other day... Not quite so much a demand... lol... Anyway, some of my friends came down to celebrate my 21st birthday with me. I spent some time with them and I actually got to spend time with James. Well that night my friends found out about his infidelity and told me that I should move back and that I could live with them. The next day I got a job in Arkansas... and I soon left. But I couldn't stop thinking about him or how much it was killing me to be away. Now we're talking again and he seems so remorseful and he doesn't have anything to gain by us being together again. I'm not moving back to Kansas, not for a long time. I'm not going to take care of his bills or anything like that... And the things he says sound so good to me. I know it could all be a lie. And I don't want to take him back because I feel like I need a man(I know I don't, I can take care of my own self). I told him he'd really have to prove himself... and he said he would... so I dunno... I Know I'm retarded for even thinking about it... but does anyone have any success stories?
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