
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
after I found out about the H`s affair the first time my son`s grades were suffering so I decided I wasn`t as important and let h come back and acted like everything was ok but it wasn`t.. I was miserable and it eventually started to show..
only you can say if you have had enough to stay or leave, but you have to be true to yourself.. I don`t care if its been 11months or 11 years if you buried your feelings and didn`t deal with them, it will never get better..
Please seek counseling for yourself and Take Care of YOU
i know what you are going thru is like being stabbed in the heart over and over again but i hope we all can heal from this some day. i am here for you. take care.
Both my mother and mother in law (two wonderful women)told me on separate occassions that I would know when I was done. I never understood it until the day came 2 years ago when I asked my H to leave. I look back and say, "My God how did I do that?!" It was so beyond me and to this day it is the single hardest decision I have ever made.
A year into "recovery" and I question staying sometimes, but I know that my inner strength will be there to guide me if I have ever "had enough" again.
We are women, and our will to survive (for ourselves also) for the sake of our children is a force to be reckoned with. Trust yourself, don't let the affair make you doubt your emotions. Where is your heart? What do you really want to do. If you still don't know it is time to make some provisions to help you come to a decision.
Luck to you,
Jax
I've been pondering whether to leave or stay for over a year and he keeps telling me he'll change, but a little time goes by and he goes right back to it. He uses porn, chats, emails and had/s several profiles on dating sites.
But something happened this last time it happened and I finally decided to leave, that I couldn't deal with the lies and deception any longer. It hurts like heck but I know that the pain will subside and I will overcome the pain. I just can't stand living in a lie any longer.
I know you'll know when enough is enough and then you can finally either make the move to leave or continue to fight for the relationship.
Hang in there and hold your head up high...you're not the one who cheated, he is, so you have done nothing wrong.
Stay strong...
loi