I am trying to understand how someone can betray another by cheating and not feel remorse or regret? do they really feel like it is valid when they have sex with someone other than thier spouse? Ya, maybe I was in a deep depression and I wasn't able to give to him emotionally or sexually....but does that really give him the go ahead to sleep with someone else.? I just don't understand how this can happen between two people who are supposed to love eachother...who have 3 young kids together...who each made vows to? Is there something missing in this persons brain makeup that this can be justified? My husband has come forward with the truth about the affair(1 month ago) however he has not told me how sorry he is and he hasn't begged me to take him back.He is actually the one who decided to move out> It's almost like "this" has happened to him. LIke he is the victim. The tables are turned here and I am wondering why I continue to love him and give him space. Who is the victim here?
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