I have caught my partner texting suggestively to ex girlfriends twice, once he was asking to meet up and the second time it was to a different woman flirting about old times. Both times I confronted him and he said it was just innocent flirting for a cheap thrill. He was cross because I looked at his mobile phone but the first time it was accidental but now I cant stop checking it. I did trust him completely before all this. We have been living together 6 months and intotal been together 2 years. Is he cheating? Could it be more than just texting? I asked him to stop after the first time but he has done it again. He promises to stop now should I believe him, I love him so much and he says he would never cheat but to me this is cheating. I dont want to be made a fool of, i have threatened to leave him but I am finding it hard to trust him now. What should I do? Am I over reacting he says its just flirting but it has sexual undertones so it makes me uneasy. Help?
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