
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I found myself contemplating this since yesterday. I read another post where a cheater was asking if he should reveal his affair to his wife. Normally, I would shout YES!!!! I came to wonder whether there would be certain circumstances to spare a person the knowledge of an affair. Let's say my husband was unhappy with our marriage and wanted a divorce. If he was completely committed to that decision, would I want to know that he'd had an affair? I think if I had been totally clueless about it, I wouldn't. However, if I asked him whether he did, I would expect the truth. I didn't want to reply to the cheater, because I didn't want to give him the answer he might be looking for. Cheaters are such cowards. Anyhow, I just wondered what all of your thoughts are on it.
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"What you don't know" is a cop-out, a sterotypical response of a weak k/ immoral person. List it under "it just happened once", "nothing happened", "it was something just for me", "it just happened", you get the idea. The ignorance excuse is as weak as all of them.
If the cheater knew he had made a mistake and was never ever going to do it again, because of guilt or whatever reason, and the cheating was over, FOREVER. I wouldn't want to know.
What would be the point to tell your spouse, I cheated on you, I will never do it again, but I just wanted you to know? Why, so there world could come crashing down like so many of ours?
I totally disagree with not knowing. You would want to know. My spouse deserved to know what I did to him behind his back. That way it got out in the open, caused difficulties for a while in the marriage and then we dealt with it. I never want to go through all that again so I know I won't ever choose to cheat again. He deserves to go through that turmoil and suffer for what he has done.
Unfortunately, there were things that I didn't know about--like that she was pregnant with his child. So, in the end, she would up having to tell me everything even though I was considering not bringing it up.