I found myself contemplating this since yesterday. I read another post where a cheater was asking if he should reveal his affair to his wife. Normally, I would shout YES!!!! I came to wonder whether there would be certain circumstances to spare a person the knowledge of an affair. Let's say my husband was unhappy with our marriage and wanted a divorce. If he was completely committed to that decision, would I want to know that he'd had an affair? I think if I had been totally clueless about it, I wouldn't. However, if I asked him whether he did, I would expect the truth. I didn't want to reply to the cheater, because I didn't want to give him the answer he might be looking for. Cheaters are such cowards. Anyhow, I just wondered what all of your thoughts are on it.
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