Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I need some advice on how to handle my boyfriend's use of porn sites. I recently found out that he's been doing this for a long time and now that I've confronted him on it with proof he is going to counseling for help. I am moving out of our home so I can have some space while I figure out what I want to do. We've been living together for 9 years and both have grown children from our x-spouses. I want to believe that he can stop and he tells me that he has and that he feels like shit for doing what he's done. He says he doesn't know why he does this, but he knows it feels wrong. Am I wrong in believing that we can get through this with counseling and some space to clear our heads? Please help!!!
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Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...
Can it be helped/healed? Perhaps. One of the biggest questions is can you tolerate having him do it again? Can you take that chance? Its about more than trust. Time after time, I see people saying you will learn to trust again. THATS GREAT, but some people just cannot do that.
I would just like to add that he DOES know why he does this, he just isn't ready to confess that part yet.
It can be worked out. Do you want it to be is the question?
THEN, he started renting porn movies on calbe when I wasn't home or was asleep in the bedroom. NOT COOL. I have nothing against porn, but not at $12 a "pop" (pun intended), and certainly not "in place of" a healthy sex life. So we had ANOTHER major meltdown in our lives.
The best thing we have going for us right now, is that when we can get past the hurt, we really do like and love each other. The best thing we can do at this point, is NOT "quitting". What will happen from here? I don't know. I just know that for now, we are both working on "working it out". Good, Bad or Ugly, that't what WE are doing.