I recently found out my fiance cheated on me with his ex wife. He admitted the infidelity to me, I didn't find out on my own. He has been very remorseful. The problem isn't so much forgiving him. I love him more than anything. But, there is no reasonable way for me to ask him to never see her again. They have a child together. If I stay with him I have to come to terms with her being a part of our lives. I have to find a way to trust that it will never happen again. I just don't know if I can. Anyone have any thoughts on if this can work?
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