just found out about 2 months ago my husband has been cheating X2 years. for the past 8 months, sleeping with a woman who is 8 years younger that him and I. I was told by the woman his complaints were...im a shitty mother(2 kids), i smoke and i treat him like shit. GUILTY! I am. but perhaps i was miserable because my husband had been cheating on me for the past two years? I also have a full time job and and full time student. he is a cop. ha. got an std check and started therapy immediately. he wants me to stay. i dont get it. this is a deal breaker, right? my therapist says "be nice to him, try to do fun things together..." i want to rip his head off. he asks me "why dont i get a second chance?" my therapist says "why should he be punished for making a mistake??" am i in the twilight zone? so he cheats on me, now he gets rewarded with a better marriage and a better wife..... ?? i dont get it. SOS.
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