Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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In love with younger people

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Hi my Name is nicole 38 years old from Boston. There is this guy Jarred 24 years old a real smartguy and really sweet and most of all very handsome. I normally perfer older guys but ever since ive met him 3 years ago and ive had this obsession of him where i would love to have him as my boyfriend and ive done whacky things to get attention from him by dressing sexy and doing odd things. Manypeople think ive lost my mind but i just cant help it and im just feeling so insecure about my self and i would do anything to have this guy. I also love seing him in his sports jersey and in his work suits and you can tell he really works out. Hes also involved in travelling and the greatoutdoor activities just like i am. Any advice and would any of you find it weird.
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deleted_user
ummm you do relize this is an infidelity support area right...not sure what your question is ..are you married is he...what exactly are you wanting advice on?
Garrison
Garrison
Are we to assume that either he or you are married / in a committed realtionship?
deleted_user
deleted_user
we are not commited i want to be but im not sure on what he wants
deleted_user
deleted_user
ok again you are aware that this is an infidelty support group?... not sure what you are wanting from us
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm wondering if "38" is a typo. Sounds more like 18. Why don't ya'll sort this out on MySpace?
deleted_user
deleted_user
yeah baw something definately doesnt sound right either she is very lost or confused about what type of site she is at
deleted_user
deleted_user
If you are both single, i have no problem with the age difference, i have a son around 24 and this would not bother me, but what does bother me is, that you need to clean up your act before you even consider trying to attract his attention. We all have crap in our lives and i can hold my hand up to that, but he is 24 he does not need a relationship with cocaine or alcohol he needs a relationship with a womyn who is clean and without any self abuse. So work on yourself, work hard, make it a goal to be healthy before you consider any relationships. Bringing toxic baggage into a new relationship is asking for failure and will only hurt you both.
You want it, fight for it.
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