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Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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My mom died of breast cancer when I was 11. She told us that she wanted our Dad to be happy and that she was OK with him remarrying. I always thought that was the right decision, until now in my own marriage.
I'm not dying, but I am thinking about what could happen if I did. (I happen to have a repeat mammogram coming up this week, to look at a possible problem) I'm sure I'll be fine but what if I won't. As it is right now, I could divorce my husband and he could never remarry because of our Christian beliefs and his infidelity. But, If I died, he'd be a widower and free to remarry. What would you do? Free to remarry or divorce him promptly if I become life threateningly ill? I know it sounds shallow and very bitter, but hey that's where I'm at right now.
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I don't care what he does; but I don't want him spending any of my life insurance money on another woman... I've thought about putting it in my will that he has to give the money to my son or charity if he ever marries again. I know... I suck!
deleted_user
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My best friend is my beneficiary.. that way the ex will get no part of it! I feel it is safe for my kids! LOL
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I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. I'm very angry with my husband right now so if I knew I would not be around long I would divorce him. I know that must sound mean, but hey did he think of me when he was laying in bed with any of his 3 OW? I would want him to never forget the hurt & pain he caused me. I have changed my will---I have three boys 2 adults and one teenager, if something should happen to me & they needed a decision what needed to done with me and I could not give it, my 3 boys will make that decision NOT MY HUSBAND because I'm not sure how much of my well being he cares about----I know there was a time when he didn't care about me at all. GOOD LUCK, and Duped, do what you feel is right, what you feel in your heart. This is just my thinking and I am a hurt and trusting wife of a cheater.
adriennem
adriennem
Good luck with your mammo. I have had a few repeats and a biopsy and they all turned out fine. I am sure yours will too:)
deleted_user
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I never thought of this before?? I think I better put some legal documents in order. Because of my H recent affair, if I was struck down today I would want him to suffer the rest of his life knowing he made my last days on earth hell. I would want him to fill the loss he has caused me to feel. No I wouldn't want him to remarry.
But I know he would. With me out of the picture he would be free....to go back to her. She would be johnny on the spot.
Since I don't have a will in place everything would go to him which he would spend on her and my kids would loose both their mother and their father. I need to make sure that in the event of my death my half of our asests would go to our kids. I would hope my kids would take him to court in need be to make sure they get it.
Do I sound calouse?? You bet I am. His whore took her doctor H for everything she could when she divoriced him to be with my H and didn't even tell him why she left. I'm be dammed if she ends up with one penny of mine.
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