
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
He told me our marriage was over was part of the reason he had the affair and he didn't want to grow old in a loveless marriage like his father was. I had NO clue he was even unhappy let alone didn't love me. The books I have read say the same as well as couples with teenagers and long term marriages are the LEAST likely to survive.
It took him about 12 hours after the confession to decide if he wanted to stay and end it with the OW. It took several days before he could tell me he was willing to do what ever it took to TRY to rebuild. But he continued to lie to me about what really happened in the affair and he kept making contact with her. Little by little a new truth comes out each week. He still hides his business phone and laptop. So who knows if he's just buying time until I've had enough and he can walk away THINKING he tried and not feel guilt for what he has done.
Many people have and still, including him, try to convince me otherwise. Most people believe his devotion and love are for me.?????
I DO know that if he doesnt unravel this knotted rope, than neither of us will be able to stay in the marriage.
I guess an exit affair is one where he exits or you do?