I have been on this site for quite some time. I try and stay in the background most of the time, but I love checking on all of you. Lately I just feel sad. You are all such wonderful people! You deserve so much better than what you have been given. I'm sick of hearing, "we are staying together for the kids" or "he'll change." Excuses!!! How can you be with a cheater who has; cheated for years, cheated with several different people, or who has even falling in love with the OW. WHY?! YOU DESERVE BETTER! You are settling! I'm sure some of you are scared to start over. Some can't imagine your life without the other person- but if you could, maybe you would see you are better off. I think a lot more women stay with their cheating spouse then men. Maybe it is because we are more codependent- but I want you all to have the strength to say "I am a good person, and I deserve better!"
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