It started a year ago. I thought I had the perfect husband only to find out he had been talking to a woman that worked with him. He led her to believe he was in the process of a divorce. Here we were 17 years four children and our marriage was far from perfect. I found out about her by putting the puzzle pieces together. He was going out more, wanting to make drastic changes like lose weight, buy a new car, and of course the phone calls on his cell. They spoke for hours late night especially. I called her and comfronted her. (and him) He decided he wanted to stay and work things out. THree months later I caught him again but this time with a woman out of state, a client where he worked at. And again stupid me decided to try one last time. Well now we are just like roommates, no sex life he wont even get near me his excuse is he is stressed and overworked. We went on vacation with the family, no reason to be stressed, no action. I dont want a roommate I did confront him, still he claims its stress. I have recently discovered he is into the online singles ads I politely let him know I knew these existed, He claims he was just curious I have not found any foul play yet (I installed spyware on the computer) So here I am faced with the dilema on how to leave how do I start over. I want to relocate but thats really hard I am enrolled in some classes trying to make a career change talk about stress
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