Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I found out that my the night before going on a month long business trip my husband posted an online solicitation for sex in the town he was going to. When I found out about it he said that he was upset / mad about a fight we had earlier and didn't have any intention of following through. When asked why he did it in the first place all he could say was "I don't know".
Well you know what - that is a lame thing to say, because now I don't know what to. He says he loves me and our daughter and will do whatever it takes to fix this, but I don't know if he actually means it or is just saing that because he got caught. I tried to tell him that I don't trust the "I wasn't going to do anything" and then he gets mad and turns it on me. I asked him to get counseling or some type of help and he says he will but hasn't.
We have a 1 1/2 year old daughter and I don't know what to do.
Part of me wants to walk away because I feel like my daughter needs a positive female role model who teaches her that it's not ok to treat women like this, but on the other hand I love my husband but don't want to feel like an idiot if all he's doing is saying what I want to hear and not what is real.
Can anyone offer any advice?
Well you know what - that is a lame thing to say, because now I don't know what to. He says he loves me and our daughter and will do whatever it takes to fix this, but I don't know if he actually means it or is just saing that because he got caught. I tried to tell him that I don't trust the "I wasn't going to do anything" and then he gets mad and turns it on me. I asked him to get counseling or some type of help and he says he will but hasn't.
We have a 1 1/2 year old daughter and I don't know what to do.
Part of me wants to walk away because I feel like my daughter needs a positive female role model who teaches her that it's not ok to treat women like this, but on the other hand I love my husband but don't want to feel like an idiot if all he's doing is saying what I want to hear and not what is real.
Can anyone offer any advice?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Second-many many cheating partners have denied with every cell in their body that they're haing an affair. I asked my husband several times if something was going on and he smiled sweetly and told me that I was just being paranoid. I trusted him so compleatly that it took solid concrete proof before he fessed up.
My husband cheated on me via internet. My H didn't delete all of his files... maybe you should check his. Check his phone bills also. If you simply don't feel comfortable or don't like it... hire an investgator next time he has out of town buisness. If you and your H work on fixing this relationship together you will also be teaching your daughter the hallmarks of a good marriage....forgivness but with boundries. If your husband isn't doing whatever he can to help fix this relationship then maybe you should then show your daughter strenght in independance.