Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I found out that my the night before going on a month long business trip my husband posted an online solicitation for sex in the town he was going to. When I found out about it he said that he was upset / mad about a fight we had earlier and didn't have any intention of following through. When asked why he did it in the first place all he could say was "I don't know".
Well you know what - that is a lame thing to say, because now I don't know what to. He says he loves me and our daughter and will do whatever it takes to fix this, but I don't know if he actually means it or is just saing that because he got caught. I tried to tell him that I don't trust the "I wasn't going to do anything" and then he gets mad and turns it on me. I asked him to get counseling or some type of help and he says he will but hasn't.
We have a 1 1/2 year old daughter and I don't know what to do.
Part of me wants to walk away because I feel like my daughter needs a positive female role model who teaches her that it's not ok to treat women like this, but on the other hand I love my husband but don't want to feel like an idiot if all he's doing is saying what I want to hear and not what is real.
Can anyone offer any advice?
Well you know what - that is a lame thing to say, because now I don't know what to. He says he loves me and our daughter and will do whatever it takes to fix this, but I don't know if he actually means it or is just saing that because he got caught. I tried to tell him that I don't trust the "I wasn't going to do anything" and then he gets mad and turns it on me. I asked him to get counseling or some type of help and he says he will but hasn't.
We have a 1 1/2 year old daughter and I don't know what to do.
Part of me wants to walk away because I feel like my daughter needs a positive female role model who teaches her that it's not ok to treat women like this, but on the other hand I love my husband but don't want to feel like an idiot if all he's doing is saying what I want to hear and not what is real.
Can anyone offer any advice?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
Second-many many cheating partners have denied with every cell in their body that they're haing an affair. I asked my husband several times if something was going on and he smiled sweetly and told me that I was just being paranoid. I trusted him so compleatly that it took solid concrete proof before he fessed up.
My husband cheated on me via internet. My H didn't delete all of his files... maybe you should check his. Check his phone bills also. If you simply don't feel comfortable or don't like it... hire an investgator next time he has out of town buisness. If you and your H work on fixing this relationship together you will also be teaching your daughter the hallmarks of a good marriage....forgivness but with boundries. If your husband isn't doing whatever he can to help fix this relationship then maybe you should then show your daughter strenght in independance.