Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
There is no doubt in my mind now that my husband is having an affair. I'm not going to tell you how I know as I have too much class for that. Just trust me I'm right. It hurts because I love him. And I think, "Everyone deserves one screw up. Everyone falls down." But then again he's been with her for a while. Where do you draw the line? When do you say Enough is enough!? When the pain gets too much. When the pain of dragging yourself out of bed and just breathing gets to be more then you can stand... that's when you do it. That's when you make plans to get a new life.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not leaving. I'm changing. I'm going to concentrate on me and Sarah and screw him. i don't want him to know yet that I know. I still need something that will stand up in court. But he will be filling up my bank account... little by little. He will be taking me to AA whether he likes it or not. I have become someone else. I have figured out how to use him as a tool for my own gain, Not like me I assure you. but no regrets... THIS MEANS WAR! Never, EVER piss off an Apachee! NEVER EVER PISS OFF AN ANGEL!
I am filling my life now with my needs instead of his. I am going to AA every chance i get as that is my support system. I am looking after myself and my daughter by staying sober, by building my account, by calling legal aide (A dead end by the way). ... everything I do now will be to build a new me. I have to. He tore the other one to peices.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not leaving. I'm changing. I'm going to concentrate on me and Sarah and screw him. i don't want him to know yet that I know. I still need something that will stand up in court. But he will be filling up my bank account... little by little. He will be taking me to AA whether he likes it or not. I have become someone else. I have figured out how to use him as a tool for my own gain, Not like me I assure you. but no regrets... THIS MEANS WAR! Never, EVER piss off an Apachee! NEVER EVER PISS OFF AN ANGEL!
I am filling my life now with my needs instead of his. I am going to AA every chance i get as that is my support system. I am looking after myself and my daughter by staying sober, by building my account, by calling legal aide (A dead end by the way). ... everything I do now will be to build a new me. I have to. He tore the other one to peices.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I wish I could have been as practical as you. It never hurts to CYA and take care of you.
The affair will come to a head and you will be able to deal with that later.
Do take care. Glad you have AA.