Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I lost...
My belief that I was special to God and under his protection
My trust in my husband being a good person
My feeling of specialness
My intimacy with my H
My sense of acceptance for who I am in my H eyes. I thought I was loved, flaws and all.
The feeling of unconditional love for my H
My safety and security
My self esteem, comfort in my own skin.
The ability to trust my H, for even little things
Trust in my own judgment
Sixteen pounds and counting, Baby!!!
I feel...
unappreciated, undervalued, taken for granted, unloved, uncherished, 2nd choice, 2nd rate, fat, ugly, hurt, devastated, betrayed to the nth power, foolish, dirty, rejected, unworthy of his truth, blamed
I've gained...
The ability to be confrontational
The willingness to not settle any more
The strength to do whatever I have to
The attitude that I will put myself first sometimes, I deserve it!
The determination to make this marriage everything I've ever wanted in a relationship or else I'll leave it and never look back.
What about you???
My belief that I was special to God and under his protection
My trust in my husband being a good person
My feeling of specialness
My intimacy with my H
My sense of acceptance for who I am in my H eyes. I thought I was loved, flaws and all.
The feeling of unconditional love for my H
My safety and security
My self esteem, comfort in my own skin.
The ability to trust my H, for even little things
Trust in my own judgment
Sixteen pounds and counting, Baby!!!
I feel...
unappreciated, undervalued, taken for granted, unloved, uncherished, 2nd choice, 2nd rate, fat, ugly, hurt, devastated, betrayed to the nth power, foolish, dirty, rejected, unworthy of his truth, blamed
I've gained...
The ability to be confrontational
The willingness to not settle any more
The strength to do whatever I have to
The attitude that I will put myself first sometimes, I deserve it!
The determination to make this marriage everything I've ever wanted in a relationship or else I'll leave it and never look back.
What about you???
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I fixed some bacon, just a little, and used the fat to fry some potatoes, half an onion, and some cabbage all cut up small. Then since I gave most of the bacon to Lucy, I put in the last 2 sausages for me. Added some salt, water to steam and it was good. Just slow cooked everything and did add some olive oil to keep it from sticking. It was hard to leave some for breakfast in the...
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As a joke, my brother used to hang a pair of panty hose over his fireplace before Christmas. He said all he wanted was for Santa to fill them. What they say about Santa checking the list twice must be true because every Christmas morning, although Jay’s kids’ stockings were overflowed, his poor pantyhose hung sadly empty.One year I decided to make his dream come true. I put on sunglasses and...
I gained an acceptance that I may be destined to travel this life alone...
but, it's a bad night~
-Jax
I've lost some of my relationships with friends.
I've lost the spark of my inner spitfire.
I've lost my flawed but whole marriage.
I've lost the feeling of my parent's support.
I've lost my ability to sleep soundly.
I've gained an amazing ability to calmly, rationally, and logically talk about extremly painful topics.
I've gained knowladge that I can take this and not break.
I've gained a new marriage.
I've gained the feelings of being able to live without him.
I've reclaimed a bit of my single self before him.
I've learned that love may not conquer all but it puts up a hellva fight.
I lost my confidence in my beauty and my lovableness
I lost my husband, as I saw him,,,before
I lost my connection to him
i lost my joy
I feel as if I dont know if this pain will ever end. I wonder who the man i love really is?
I gained the right to be angry
I gained the right to find my own truth
I gained a new understanding of the complex man I love
I lost strength.
I lost my job.
I lost a child.
I lost trust in not just him, but any man, for any reason.
I lost respect for him.
I lost time that could have been spent loving him.
I lost laughter and smiling.
I lost my engagement.
I lost my love for him eventually.
I gained:
Anger
Acceptance
Forgiveness
But the knowledge to realize he is an idiot and I do not have to put up with him.
I gained MORE self respect for myself.
I gained a hell of an attitude, but it serves me well.
I gained weight.
And, I gained a lover. And no, its not him.
I gained the strength to move on and realize that what he did was HIS fault, not mine...
I gained my life back, and the knowledge to know that he wasn't my life.
I gained bitterness, however.
I gained enough anger to force me to change my life. And I did.
I Lost a lying, cheating, abusive sociopath.
I gained a caring, understanding, respectful, unbelievable man.
I feel so much of the pain that you all feel...
I've gained a lot of weight... but I guess I can't blame that all on him because I really love chocolate lol