Ok....long story short in my saga here. There was an older, (she's a grandma of adult children) woman who encouraged this slut to go after my hubby, even saying "well, you looked happy at work with her". She even told MY SIL that this slut should be with him. Happy??!! He is always like that at work, joking and goofing around with EVERYONE!! WHO IS THIS WOMAN TO ENCOURAGE THIS SLUT TO GO AFTER A MARRIED MAN WITH 5 CHILDREN??? I just can't get past this...I asked my hubby to say something to her, to stick up for me and our children and to admit what he did was wrong and how could she do what she did? (he didn't know she had said these things at the time). He said he would, well, she was there last Sat, and so was I and he didn't do it....didn't want to make a scene at his job...ok, I didn't ask him to make a scene, just ask to talk with her for a minute off to the side, and while he was introducing me to everyone else I hadn't yet met, did he bring me over to her? Gee, I really wanted to ask her what the hell were you thinking? He says he thought he could do it in person but said he chickened out, could he email her? REALLY? the last email he sent her asking why she would tell his sister that, she said she didn't want to get in the middle, and didn't know if it was really me emailing....iIF SHE DIDN'T WANT TO BE IN THE MIDDLE, SHE PROBABLY SHOULDN'T HAVE TOLD THIS SLUT TO GO AFTER HIM!!!! I am so hurt and angry with him for not doing what he said he would, up until now he has done everything I have asked of him in this mess....but it is driving me crazy that I was sitting 10 feet from her and didn't get acknowledged....they've never even apologized....her granddaughter is getting married next month and I wonder how she would feel if someone did this to her and her fiance....no one even thought there are two sides to every story...
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