Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Here is the situation. I've never caught him cheating, and he'll never admit it. We've been married almost 4 years and have a 2 year old and 10 month old. I am currently a temp at a very large credit union and says they'll be hiring me when a women in my department retires in a few months. I can't seem to figure out if I still love him. He's like an annoying big kid. This morning we had an argument because I asked him to help get the kids dressed while I got ready so I could take them to daycare before work. He refused saying he wanted to sleep more and said I should have gotten up earlier. I told him that HE should get up earlier to help and they're HIS kids too!!!
I am so tired of being broke from his bad decisions, feeling neglected and unloved, and being his &%$#*& MOTHER!!!!
I feel like I am just staying and putting up with it. I don't like him but unfortunatly I love him for God's know what reason. I can see EXACTLY why his ex-wife left him and she even warned me! He won't do anything around the house, if he has no clean socks or underwear, he'll wear the dirty ones, he's disgusting.
If I've wanted any action in the last few years I better plan getting him off first and then I get stuck pleasuring myself! He has not given me an orgasm in probably a year!
Give SOMEONE give me good words of advice to leave!!!!!
I am so tired of being broke from his bad decisions, feeling neglected and unloved, and being his &%$#*& MOTHER!!!!
I feel like I am just staying and putting up with it. I don't like him but unfortunatly I love him for God's know what reason. I can see EXACTLY why his ex-wife left him and she even warned me! He won't do anything around the house, if he has no clean socks or underwear, he'll wear the dirty ones, he's disgusting.
If I've wanted any action in the last few years I better plan getting him off first and then I get stuck pleasuring myself! He has not given me an orgasm in probably a year!
Give SOMEONE give me good words of advice to leave!!!!!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I will bet everything Ive got that there is someone out there that will treat you with the respect you deserve.
Hugs
-Jax
-Jax
Not easy to leave with 2 babies. Some of us have though. I left my first asshole, when mone were 14 months and 3 months..yea imagine! I was still breastfeeding but my mild dried up due to the stress...then I had to buy formula! I went back a couple of years later for a few years, until they were in school, for practical reasons, because he DID work and I didnt.
Pont being, I was always happier with him gone. =In spite of the extra work, which isnt that much if they dont help, there was peace in my home. My childre, babies were more at peace. I made good friends with other single moms, through a mommy me class at the public schools. I did not date for3 years. I just enjoyed my children and healed with the love of my friends and family. I will never regret that time.
Life goes on and you may remarry, single moms are not discriminated against, infact, some men just like the maturity we have compared to some women our age who do not seem as mature to them. For right now...just look for ...peace.