
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I started an adultery support group in my area. We have not had a meeting yet. My husband was just on the computer. Even though I shut out of the web page regarding the group, since I did not sign up, he saw everything. Needless to say, I hadn't told him yet.
Well, true to form, he blew up. Told me I was weak...if I thought I had problems before..I'll really have them now. Adultery was the last thing I should be worried about. Everyone knows I have always been paranoid (yeah, because I have hid from them your two flings and then year long affair)
God this hurts so much. I told him I was going so I didn't have to burden with my problems..
Go ahead everyone, tell me what I need to hear.
-Jax
Well, true to form, he blew up. Told me I was weak...if I thought I had problems before..I'll really have them now. Adultery was the last thing I should be worried about. Everyone knows I have always been paranoid (yeah, because I have hid from them your two flings and then year long affair)
God this hurts so much. I told him I was going so I didn't have to burden with my problems..
Go ahead everyone, tell me what I need to hear.
-Jax
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I think they are threatened by suport groups because they think we might get strong enough to leave them behind!!!
Thanks my friends.
-Jax
If he was sorry for what he did, he would be encouraging you to go to this group and work on things, not acting like a jerk and trying to separate you from getting support.
my H knows about this site he sees me here all the time and has asked me what it is and I have told him... I don`t allow him to read as this is my safe haven..I have though read to him a few of the things that I wanted him to realize he has put me through..
anyways you keep taking care of you and if he doesn`t understand then tell him to go and screw himself.. you need the support and stuff to deal what he has put you through... lots of hugs for you and take care
im so tired of these assholes actin like they run shit.
Weak people don't work on their marriages after infidelity, support others, as you do on DS AND start a support group in your neighborhood!
Good God, that takes more strenghth than I have! People who reach out to their community, especially about such a sensitive issue are a rare and disappearing breed.
Our planet needs more people like you. I am impressed with your ingenuity and courage.
Tell your husband that he is very lucky that you are allowing him a second chance and he had better try a bit harder if he doesnt want your generousity to run dry!
Good luck with your group.
Suggestion: Maybe make it anonomous, not necessarily affiliated with other anon groups, but for those who would prefer anonimity.
Love,
Jax