This morning I asked my H if he had thought at all about how he would feel if I had cheated on him. He said he had but refused to explain how he would feel, saying it would make me mad to hear what he had to say. Later this morning, I got the idea to write a letter to a ficticious man in resemblance to those emails I found of his. Then give it to him to read. Just to be sure he can fully imagine my hands and mouth on another man. It would, of course, at the bottom of the letter have the disclaimer that it was not true. So, what do you think? Would it do more harm or good?