OK, everyone says direct your anger toward your husband. He is the cheater...the OW was just an innocent pawn. I can't help haaaating that woman. Yes, at first he lied to her and she thought he was single. But then she found out he was married and continued to stay in contact with him and pursue him. He fed her all kinds of lies but how could any decent woman pursue a married man??? I would never do that. She started calling my house and one day I picked up the phone by accident and she hung up. I called her back and told her to leave me alone and not call my house anymore. She proceeded to get a restraining order against me and have me served at work! I was mortified and devastated. My husband was away fishing at the time and when I called for his emotional support, his first response was"What the hell do you want me to do about it?" This woman has spent time with my husband and baby daughter (he had the nerve to take her along on their dates!). He has taken her to church and they have held hands while praying to God. How hypocritcal is that? She sent a hate mail directed at me and is obviously off balance. I have done nothing wrong in all of this, yet I had to hire a lawyer and defend my good name in court. I don't ever want to see her because I am afraid of what I would do to her. She and my husband had been corresponding through a secret email address for months, meeting secretly and phoning one another. He says he hasn't actually seen her since October, but it wrenches out my heart every time I see that there has been contact. It would be ok if I knew she were just a stalker, but I know he is initiating alot of these contacts. How can you call yourself a Christian, as she does, but act the way she does???? How can I just have issues with my husband when she is so obviously such an evil person as well????
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