After 19 yr marriage (which he never worked at very hard, had narcissistic and PA tendencies) my STBXH had an affair apparently for about 6 mos prior to moving out a year ago. I have never tried so hard at anything in my life as I did to save that marriage for years, and then he ends it like that. I can't stand him anymore. I filed for a divorce very soon after he moved out, and he moved in with OW within 2 months. He agreed to an amicable divorce 50/50 through my attorney initially and for a year now that has been the plan, but he has balked & balked and now at one year says he's getting his own attorney. Actually that was 2 mos. ago, and no word yet (no attorney contacting my attorney). Why would he just continue to drag this thing out if OUT is what he wanted?!?!
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