
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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My husband has been having an affair with a mutual friend and co-worker. I found out about it in April of this year. He moved into an apartment in June. He has been dating this woman and also trying to make efforts to spend time with our younger son. Whenever we talk about making plans for our son regarding schedules or acivities together, he has lied regarding what he's doing or when he's available. When our son asks if he can come places he lies and says he has to work or he is away on business. I know that probably he is with her and it's not business. Anyway, just recently he was telling me his plans for the weekend- just working I guess- he called back minutes later and said, "I can't lie anymore," and told me that he was going away for the weekend with her. Does anybody know if this is a good thing? Does it mean he is starting to realize the damage he is doing to his family? He also made remarks regarding not knowing what to do- who to talk to. Some suggestions or feedback please.
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Your patience and self control are phenominal! I could never have stopped myself from confronting him.
As to your question.
He is perhaps coming out of denial himself. So, since living a lie is not good for anyone, it is probably better for him. I would need to know more, like what you have said to him, about moving, up to the phone call you mention, to know how it might bode for you and he as a couple. I would only be guessing anyway.
Tell him to go speak to a counselor, pastor, priest, family member or friend. or all of the above. You do not need to be burdoned listening to his ambivelence about the other woman.
What do you want?