I've read so many posts/discussions and so many of you can move on; why can't I? My H keeps saying to let it go; it wasn't anything (months long text/cell phone A with another W/co-worker), to move on. So, why can't I "get over it"? He has admitted it was wrong, he let things get out of hand, enjoyed the attention, etc... But he's NEVER said that he betrayed our marriage, he doesn't see it that this was an emotional A. Is that what I'm needing to hear to let this go? or is it because when he asked what I needed for him to do to "move on" and I said quit his job; he said "no". There are days that I drain myself, emotionally, just thinking about this, thinking about what they could possibly be talking about for 2 hours (at a time). Why they needed to be in CONSTANT contact, with each other, every day all day. From the momment they woke up, to the second before they'd fall asleep, they were in contact. Is he right and I'm stressing over this and I should just let go? I want to move on; I want to start a new journey; I want to get let go. But why can't I? Granted I don't trust him, right now; but, I'm sure those that are moving forward are having trust issues; but, are still moving forward. I'm sick to my stomach and need to get over this... And he says I'm driving him crazy because I can't let go and I don't want to keep doing that... Any thoughts?
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