Hello my name is Brandie and I am hoping to get some in site from others on this. I am 27 years and have been married for almost 5 years in Aug. We have been together for almost 9 years. We have 3 kids, 9 in June 4 in April and our little man is was 2 in October. My oldest is from my another relationship, but my husband has been around since she was 8 days old. ( We were friends in H.S.) I have been a stay at home mom for almost four years and with in the last 2 months found out that my husband has cheated on me. He came home with a hicky on his neck from a married women at work. And to boot he said that it was over but about 2 weeks later I hacked in to his emails and found that he had been emailing her again and still talking to her also started another email account to have conversations with her through there. After that encounter I was ready to leave I had a friend take my kids and I confronted him and he broke down and we went to see a marriage counselor. Have been seeing him for a 4 weeks now. It seems to be helping me I guess. this is a short version of the story what I am wondering is can u ever forgive and where do you start. I have good days and bad days but each is getting harder to handle. sometime I think it would be easier to just get a divorce and move on? Where do you even start? Long before we got married we promised we would try everything before we called it quits, both sets of our parents are divorce and we didn't want that for our kids. Words of encouragement any thoughts anything? I am drowning in tears!!! Thanks in advanced!!
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