My husband and I were married in April of '07. We wanted a baby and I am pregnant with my first (he had a 9 year old son of whom I'm very close.) Two weeks ago (Nov 25th 07) he was hit by a car and killed. He was the love of my life. When he was with me I felt he was with me 100%. SO kind, gentle, loving, and I loved him so as well. He changed me for the best. The night he was killed I had his and my families at my house and I had his cell phone calling his friends to let them know the tradegy. To my supprise most names in his cell phone were names of men, but woman's voicemails or woman answering. I identified myself as calling from his phone to let them know the horrible news and to my supprise at least 4 of them claimed to be someone who had met him once or twice mostly from a dating sight. The next day I called one woman who was extremely upset, she new him as the wrong name and claimed that they had known each other for 1 1/2 years, was intimate for the first few months then he would disappear and reappear here and there. She had no interest in him for more than a friend, but told him that she would always be there for him. I thought maybe she was "safe" because she had no interest in his life (where he lived, friends etc.) She claimed as they all did that he did not tell them he was married.

My curiosities are how can someone so sweet, caring, never pushed me away, never seemed to be distracted, be so deseatful. I can't confront him. I'm mad, sad, and confused.

Please help.