I've been with my husband for 3 years. I knew that when we seperated for a temporary break for the relationship, he had cheated twice. I forgave hm the best that I could. A few days ago, his ex wife informed me that she and my husband had been having sex at least 3 times during our engagement and after our marriage. He had previously cheated with with 2 other women that I knew about. It's driving me crazy becaue I just found this out 3 days ago and he keeps saying he loves me and wants me and that it's basically my fault that he cheated because I wanted a break from the relationship (only for a week or two). He also said some very harsh and untrue things about me to his ex wife. He once called me to ask for the divorce so he could go back to his ex. Then the next week we were back together. I am not sure what to do..part of me believes I love him...the other part wonders why I cannot leave him and stay gone. PLEASE HELP...NOW. I am emotionally torn and have not slept in 3 days.
Thanks to all!
Thanks to all!
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