My husband is flying to LA to visit a college for his daughter. He told me he will be meeting a woman he knows from a chatroom that lives there. I was suspicious, since the last girl he met, he hid her gender, and she turned out to be seeking married men for affairs. I told hubby not to have sex with this LA woman, he was offended. I also concluded that I am permitted to meet online men now. He says I should not be having affairs. So, why is he allowed to have affairs? Just because they aren't having sex, deosn't mean it is not harming our marriage. He should not be having close enough relations with any woman online that he needs to keep secrets. I gave up all my close online male friends to preserve our marriage, yet hubby is angry now. He wished he continued the secret and just meet this other woman. I feel I am overcoming my addiction to the internet, but maybe hubby is still tangled. He is willing to lie and cheat like all the other dishonorable men I have met online. I feel I should be more upset, but I feel it is better to let it blow over. I can't leave hubby, and I can't be happy together either.
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