
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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i am still amazed that my husband carried on an affair for so long and that i did not know. i truly had no idea he was cheating. he says that he would see the other woman for minutes at a time, long enough to have sex. he said on very few occassions he would be able to stay over longer because i was off doing something else, like....working. it just want to kick my own ass for not seeing this sooner and putting a stop to it. but what is sad is that the little time he gave was plenty for her.
for those who were cheated on, did you see signs that you just ignored or did you really think your marriage was stable(like i did.)
for those who cheated, how did you hide it for as long as you did, did you have a spouse that was never suspicious?
i know this sounds crazy but, next to the child this is the part i can not let go of-the amount of time that this affair went on and i had NO idea, i never questioned my husbands actions, he never appeared to be cheating.
for those who were cheated on, did you see signs that you just ignored or did you really think your marriage was stable(like i did.)
for those who cheated, how did you hide it for as long as you did, did you have a spouse that was never suspicious?
i know this sounds crazy but, next to the child this is the part i can not let go of-the amount of time that this affair went on and i had NO idea, i never questioned my husbands actions, he never appeared to be cheating.
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I know because I felt the same way...
My love was so trusting, but I knew there were problems. I have been the giver in our marriage and he was the taker..
His lusts that he couldn't control was never know by me..
He wouldn't talk to me because he thought talking about our problems would make me mad... I told him, did he think that having an affair would not make me MAD?
There are a lot of nutty people out there and my H is one of them....
I think most on this site feels as I do...
My suggestion to you would be to let him go and do his thing because chances are he wont stop and I dont care if others disagree with me.
Unfortunately, I agree with Carrol, yet am still considering reconcilliation.
I did not suspect because I trusted but now, I will always suspect. I will check on where he isoccasionally and I will go ballistic if my intuition kicks in.
That is where I am regarding his silly and continued minimization of the last affair. I KNOW HE IS WITHHOLDING INFORMATION. HE KNOWS THAT IF HE DOES NOT COME TOTALLY CLEAN BY THE TIME I AM READY TO RELOCATE TO UTAH, I GO ALONE. Sometimes he says, "Why wont you believe me?" I tell hiim that I trust my intuition much, much more than I trust him. If he chooses to leave me because I wont believe him or if I leave because I wont believe him, I will have no regrets. I know that the chances are that he will put me through this hell again, sometime in the next 15 or ??years,until I die, if we stay together. If I decide to not risk that, I will believe it is in my best interests. If I stay with him, I will be watchful and ALWAYS have an exit plan.