My wife of 17 yrs left me and move in with another man. After 4 months she came back and promised never to talk to him again. During the past 15 months since she came back she began lying about everything she was doing and I finally told her to leave. I found out that she still was seeing him during her time back. Shes now been in rehab inpatient for 45 days and tells me how much she still loves me and that she is working on her drug addiction as well as taking meds for depression and bi-polar disorder. I still love my wife but i can't trust her anymore. She wants me to go to therapy with her while shes still in the facility. I have totally tried to ignore every thought about her being with this guy that races into my head every day numerous times each day . I'm afraid I won't be able to deal with actually admitting it even happened. Now that ive written down my thoughts I feel pathetic that I have been avoiding dealing with and confronting her about it.
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