My husband and I have been together 24 years, 21 married. He has cheated before, more than once, but have worked through those, or so I thought. A little over a year ago he met these 2 girls at a concert. One of them needed a job, we will call her "C" and is now working for us - we own and operate 2 successful businesses. The other one "J" he said was weird, but was the best friend of the girl now working for us. (they aren't friends anymore) J has her own house cleaning business and we had just purchased a new home, very custom, very large, for our kids to come visit, our future, etc. I thought we were happy. He said he was so happy, loved me so much, and was so excited for our future. We have 3 kids: 28 (from my first marriage), 27 & 25 (from his first marriage). 2 live out of state, 1 works for us. My husband thought it would be a help to me to have J come in and clean once a month. Long story short, he moved out 6 months ago with her. She is 33, only 5 years older than our daughter. She has 3 kids: 17, 14, 11. All different dads, none of them in the picture. She has a past of sleeping around with whoever looks twice at her. She told me about some of them: a married client (who divorced because of it), a man 30 years older than her, a convicted felon (he just got out of jail after 12 years - supposedly the father of one of her kids), a meth addict (her words), and various others. I am heart broken. We had plans to travel. Do things the just 2 of us. Go visit our kids. He is 50, I am 57. I am a 4 year survivor of Breast Cancer, having a double mastectomy 4 years ago next month. He was so supportive through all of that, which was to say the least, devastating. Now he tells me I was boring. He can't deal with the fact I don't have nipples anymore. He wants to shoot tequila, party, take her to all the places we used to go as a family, because her being a single mom of 3 has never had anything, Her kids need a father (he has kicked her daughter out of the house twice now for not following his rules). Like I said, we own 2 businesses, things are so intertwined and complicated. He doesn't understand why I am so heartbroken. I don't know how to pick myself up and feel good about myself. I don't know what to do with the love I have for him, which I know he doesn't deserve. I know in my heart I need to accept this and move on, I just don't know how. I've been through so much. I'm just at the end of my rope.
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