The OW works in the coffee shop we used to frequent. For obvious reasons, my husband no longer goes there. I have not spoken to the OW since the affair was discovered (mid-December). She has been working when I go in to get coffee but hides in the back. A couple of days ago I went in and she had to wait on me and was very uncomfortable and noticeably flustered. I enjoyed making her feel uneasy and reminding her by my presence that her "boyfriend" has a wife and two kids. Am I evil for constantly wanting to go in when she's working to make her squirm and is this inhibiting me from "moving on"?
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