My husband had an affair with one of his best friends wives and I didn't find out until months after everyone else. I always had so much trust in our relationship and him I think that is the hardest thing for me to get over. I fear she isn't the only one, he keeps telling me there hasn't been but sometimes I see a certain look that says different. He has answered all the difficult questions that go along with it, and as much as it hurt for him to answer them and for me to hear them, he did. He is a good person and we had lost the intimacy in our relationship (mainly due to me) so I do take some responsibility in what happened. He one time said to me if he couldn't get it at home he would find it somewhere else and I can't get that out of my head. I know he loves me and is genuinely sorry and the intimacy is back and so is my best friend. He really is a good person, he just made a bad decision. I NEED THE TRUST AGAIN!!!!
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