I have been married for 13 years. My husband is wonderful in all areas except for the fact that he openly cheats, which counteracts any of the good he tries to do. I have lost count of how many times over the years that he has done this. I always find out, and for a time I really wanted to make the marriage work, but now I just want out. I work from home (my home) so if not for that I would have left a long time ago. On a typical day he will get up at 3 a.m. to chat with other women while I am still in bed, close enough that I can hear him typing. He portrays himself as divorced on the sites. (I know because I have seen his ads). He actually has met quite a few women this way, and is close to meeting another one now. I recently went through the numbers in his cell phone, and there were 9 women's phone numbers, plus names. The problem is this...He refuses to leave even though he has been given the ultimatum; however, now I just wish he would move on and leave me alone. I used to really love him, and would have done anything to keep him, but this has nothing to do with love. He wants the security of knowing I will always be there for him no matter what he does, and still be able to keep all of his "friends." There are no children involved, and I have no family left for support since I am an "only child" and both of my parents have passed away. I am really not sure where to turn at this point. I just know I am tired of feeling betrayed and abandoned. Any advice would be appreciated.
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