Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
To set it up- she doesn't come home. Doesn't tell me the whole truth about who she was with. The other man's wife called me two weeks later with the news that he was with my wife that night. They deny anything happened. Bare in mind, the OM wife has been friends of our family for years..like a sister to us. This couple were the God parents of our children!
I new in my heart it was all lies so I get divorced from our 15 year marriage. Afterwards the ex finally gets honest with me about what really happend that night.
Now how would you deal with the other man?
I have a justifiable resentment! He is still married and they have 2 wounderful little girls of there own. His wife heard the same lies I had to listen to for months and she really desirves to know the truth. Now I don't want to cause any trouble for her but whats wrong with making him sweat....letting him know I now know the truth? He had sex with my wife and I feel I need some kind of pay back for this SOB! Do I just forgive him for ripping away my dreams, my life?
I new in my heart it was all lies so I get divorced from our 15 year marriage. Afterwards the ex finally gets honest with me about what really happend that night.
Now how would you deal with the other man?
I have a justifiable resentment! He is still married and they have 2 wounderful little girls of there own. His wife heard the same lies I had to listen to for months and she really desirves to know the truth. Now I don't want to cause any trouble for her but whats wrong with making him sweat....letting him know I now know the truth? He had sex with my wife and I feel I need some kind of pay back for this SOB! Do I just forgive him for ripping away my dreams, my life?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
The only thing that has worked for me is to pray to GOD to give me the ability to forgive them both. Yes, I know, and I wouldn't have tried either until I had no other choice. After 3 months of praying I have come to understand that she was unhappy and the specific man really doesn't matter much. I must be very dense to have been walking around madly in love and happy, while my wife was so unhappy that she required a lover.
I hope that you find your path to sanity.
Now, the one the he wronged is HIS wife. She is the one that he promised fidelity with, and broke. Now, you might want to inform her because She is your friend, and she shared with you her suspicions... but don't do it for revenge... revenge serves no one... hell, revenge can eat your soul up and leave you a dry husk in the desert... Just because they did the wrong things doesn't mean you have to.
I know it hurts... and this entire situation is completely jacked p, but you need to do what you can so that you don't compromise your values... leave that to your wife... she is willing to compromise good values... and i have a feeling that you have a strong moral code... do what is right.