Hi Im in so much shock right now I dont know where to turn. My mobile phone broke on the weekend and it said to replace sim card. I had one on the computer desk so thought I would try it out and to my horror loads of txt messages came flooding in. They were of a very very sexual natuer. TO MY HUSBAND!! Not from me!! He works in a job two weeks away from home then two wekks at home. I know he isnt cheating at work as it is a male dominated area very isolated. But he went to another city to do some exams and this is when this happened. It was october last year and I only found it now. He swaers nothing sexual took place but there were 6 other womens phone numbers in it. I contacted them and they assure me that nothing physical happened just lunch or dinner and only 3 met him. They say it was thru a internet dating site. I challenged him and at first admitted to the contact by phone but denied meeting but the woman told otherwise. He then admitted all but swears no physical contact! I was 7 months pregnant with our third child and at the time was really happy and so was he -I thought. How can I trust him again what do I need to tell him he needs to do. WE have been together 13 years and have had ups and downs but nothing like this he is my best friend we have been thru sooo much Im going crazy trying to get the thoughts out of my head and function for my kids. He is soo angry at himself and says he is glad it is out in the open as it wa seating him up. He says nothing has happened since and I think I believe that help I dont want to lose my marriage but I don t think he can just "get away with it " Iam at home on my own with the kids for the two weeks he is a wy and studying as well Im soo tired and cant think clearly has anyone else experienced anything like this An affair with no sex just txt sex????????????
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