
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
When I made my vows to him over 40 years ago, before God and man, I truly meant every word of them.
Too bad, that he didn't!
I also took my vows very seriously. We have seen the worse and now I am looking forward to better.
Isn't that what we all deserve is better. Who deserves this kind of pain. The infidels don't think before they act.
I don't even think I could do that with someone I didn't love...I mean, how much sex does one person need? If the person you are with isn't meeting your needs then IMO you should move on. Right?
Unfortunately, I did. And as a result, I not only was the OW, but I cheated on myself. Which made my already severe depression even worse. (I can be really hard on myself.....but that is for another thread/community.)
Needless to say, it took some time (and counseling) to work through this. And I've come out of this mess with a valuable lesson. One that I hope sticks.....but I don't want to forget the pain that I was in (not to mention everyone else involved).....because if I forget, there's always a chance of a repeat. ("Those who forget the past are doomed to repeat them.") And I DON'T WANT TO REPEAT IT.
latrommi, I'm glad you got through it and hope you're doing okay now. *hugs*
No one is superior to another because of their ideals and hopes...and I am also not a "victim" or excuse what I did....I didn't get married with divorce in mind. Now I am divorced and i made my bed and am sleeping in it....life goes on.