
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I dont' want to give an ultimatum. I wouldn't follow through. My husband changed overnight. He cut everyone out his life that has always mattered. Seems like a mid life crisis. Say he loves me, but feels much better with his mistress. She 11 years younger. We have two toddlers. I will not get divorced. At this point this is all still new. We are still living together and are talking more openly and honestly than ever. But he is still seeing her. HOw long should I try to wait this out? I know it sounds like I am idiot....but I feel that he depressed and not really falling out of love.
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He has to move out to experience life without you completely. Right now, he gets to have both of you. You don't have to tell him it's over or give him an ultimatum. Just make it clear you aren't going to share.
He was planning to go to a "friends" house on Sat. to help with yard work. I told him NO. He needed to take the day, no contact with her, this was between our family, just us. If he left or had contact with her don't come back period. He gave me his cell phone and shut off the computer. I asked lots of questions during the day. I told him if he couldn't choose his family he was to leave and Mon. morning I would contact a lawyer and a real estate agent. I drew a line in the sand and that was it. Me or her. I made him tell our 3 teenagers what he had done to our family.
By late after noon he told me he didn't want to give up his family and he wanted to try to fix what he had done. On Sunday he meet with her to brake it off.
It's been 21 weeks and she continued to contact him for a long time and he lied about so many things and continued to contact her too. But little by little I think he's starting to let go of her or he's really good at acting.
Don't be a door mat. Don't make it easy for him. You have the right to be respected. Remind him of the promises he made to you. I was also told my H was having a mid-life crisis by my ex-counselor. BULL that's an excuse. He is a selfish coward just like my H. There is NO excuse for having an affair. What he "loves" is his ego and how she is willing to drop every thing and stroke it.